Top Shelf Love:
The Fortress
Not just marriage advice.
This is legacy love.
The Fortress is a couples experience designed for
those who want more — more connection,
more strength, more meaning.
Not therapy.
Not fluff.
Just the tools, structure,
and support to build
the love you were meant for.
~What we do~
Top Shelf Love is a full-spectrum relationship ecosystem
We help couples reconnect, communicate with strength, and build a relationship that becomes the foundation of a legendary life.
Whether you're struggling to stay connected…
or simply know you're meant for more…
you’ll find exactly what you need — right where you are.
This isn’t therapy.
This is leadership
in love, family, and legacy.
~Why It Works~
Couples don’t all start at the same place — so we don’t pretend they do.
When you join, you’ll choose your stage:
💔 The Almost Broken
⚔️ The Lovers at War
🛏 The Silent Roommates
💨 The Drifting Duo
🛠 The Builders
Take the Quiz That
Could Change Everything
24 questions. Honest answers. Real clarity.
Stage 1: The Almost Broken
💔 Something happened. You’re still here… but barely.
Pain has taken center stage — betrayal, loss of trust, or a slow breakdown. One or both of you may feel shut down, hopeless, or emotionally armored. You’re here because part of you still wants to hold on
➡️ This stage focuses on healing, nervous system safety, and beginning again from ground zero.
Stage 2: Lovers at War
⚔️ You love each other — but every conversation is a fight.
There’s still fire… but it burns. Arguments, shutdowns, or reactive patterns dominate your dynamic. You’re both present, but exhausted.
➡️ This stage helps you rebuild safety, regulate emotions, and shift from reaction to reconnection.
Stage 3: The Silent Roommates
🛏 You’re not fighting… but you’re not connecting.
Things feel emotionally flat or distant. There’s no big rupture — just quiet disconnection and coexisting. You miss the intimacy you used to have.
➡️ This stage helps you reignite the spark, rebuild emotional intimacy, and bring life back to the relationship.
Stage 4: The Drifting Duo
💨 You’re still kind… but you’re growing apart.
One or both of you may be on a personal growth journey. It feels like you're no longer aligned — spiritually, emotionally, or sexually. You want to stay connected, but feel like you’re in different lanes.
➡️ This stage realigns your vision, values, and direction — so you grow together, not apart.
Stage 5: The Builders
🛠 You’re strong — but you want more.
You’ve got a solid foundation, but you’re ready to go deeper. You want legacy, leadership, and a love that creates real impact. This isn’t repair — this is refinement.
➡️ This stage is for couples ready to rise into something iconic — and pass it on.
Each stage unlocks a personalized path through our
Top Shelf Framework:
1. Start fresh Together –Claim the Ground
2. Reignite the Spark -Align the Fire
3. Anchor the Connection -Build the Culture
4. Master the Language of Love -Speak the Standard
5. Build the Legacy –Fortify the Future
It’s not just theory.
It’s not just inspiration.
It’s a step-by-step structure for real growth.
~Why we're different~
We’re not offering therapy — and that’s the point.
Alessandra was a therapist.
Stratton was a relationship coach.
We've both seen what works — and what doesn’t — behind closed doors.
We’ve both been through our own transformation, together and individually.
This isn’t theory.
This is lived, tested, real.
And we knew couples needed something more
More engaging
More holistic
More structure
More human
That's why we created a hybrid experience
Separate spaces for men and women
live support, real tools, deep breathwork
A Clear structure that doesn't just keep you together — it makes you proud to be
One that honors the individual journey and the shared one.
🔹 Men step into brotherhood, clarity, and challenge.
🔹 Women return to their wisdom, softness, and sovereignty.
And together?
You rise into a love that’s built to last.
This isn’t therapy.
This is Top Shelf Love.
It’s not just about fixing what’s broken.
It’s about forging something unbreakable.
Ready to Find Your Starting Point?
Take the quiz and discover your relationship’s current stage.
(coming soon)
We’ll guide you from exactly where you are — and take you where you’re meant to be.
or
~who we ARE~
We’re Stratton & Alessandra — a real couple, building a real life, raising four kids while living out the very values we teach inside this space.
We created Top Shelf Love not because our relationship was perfect…
But because we knew we were meant for more than just getting by.
We believe that love should be:
-Chosen, not defaulted into
-Lived out loud, not tucked behind roles
-Powerful enough to build a legacy
So we built a space for couples who want that too.
What Top Shelf Love Stands For
These are the 5 foundations of Top Shelf Love — the concept:
Intention over Default
Love doesn’t just happen. It’s chosen, forged, and led — daily.
Truth over Comfort
Real connection doesn’t grow through pretending. It grows through courage.
Presence over Distraction
Top Shelf Love is found in small, overlooked moments — not grand gestures.
Growth over Stagnation
You’re either evolving together or drifting apart. We grow on purpose.
Legacy over the Highlight Reel
This isn’t about looking good online. It’s about being felt for generations.
~what we believe~
We believe marriage can be your greatest path to healing, leadership, and legacy.
We believe your love is worth more than just staying together.
We believe the relationship you build together can be your life’s greatest work.
If you believe that too…
Then welcome to
Top Shelf Love.
🔍 Top Shelf Love – FAQs
This isn’t just another program — and your questions deserve real answers. Let’s get you clear before you take the next step.
Is this therapy?
No — and that’s intentional. Top Shelf Love isn’t about diagnosing or reliving the past. It’s about building forward. This is a structured, immersive relationship experience designed by a former therapist and her husband — rooted in real tools, powerful breathwork, and a proven growth path. It’s not therapy… it’s transformation.
What if only one of us wants to join?
That’s okay. While this experience is designed for couples, you doing the work can shift everything. We’ve seen it time and time again — one partner leading with clarity, presence, and purpose often becomes the catalyst for real change. And if your partner joins later? Beautiful. But you don’t have to wait to start building something better.
What if we’re in a really bad place? (like cheating, betrayal, or considering divorce)
We built this with you in mind. When you join, you’ll choose the stage that reflects where your relationship is right now. Couples who are hurting, disconnected, or barely hanging on will start with tools and support designed for that exact experience — not a generic “marriage is hard” pep talk. You’ll be met with depth, safety, and truth — not shame.
What exactly do we get when we join?
You’ll get access to: A personalized entry point based on your stage as a couple.
- A full 5-stage framework (The Top Shelf Path) delivered through your stage’s lens.
-Breathwork vaults for couples, men, and women.
-Private men’s and women’s spaces.
-Bi-weekly couples Q&A calls with Stratton and Alessandra
- A community of couples on the same mission
-Optional lifetime access if chosen on your first invoice
Is this religious or faith-based?
We’re a faith-filled family, but this space welcomes all backgrounds. Our values are rooted in legacy, intention, and truth — not dogma. Top Shelf Love is for anyone committed to building a powerful, connected, and purposeful relationship.
How much time will this take each week?
We built this for real life — not fantasy schedules.
Most couples spend 1–2 hours per week inside The Fortress:
20–30 minutes watching or listening to a lesson.
30–60 minutes on guided conversations, breathwork, or rituals.
Optional time in the community or Q&A calls.
You set the pace. We provide the structure.
What does it cost to join the Fortress?
The standard enrollment is $3,000 for six months or $650/month for six months.
But right now, there’s a special Founding Member offer — including the chance for lifetime access — available exclusively through our Relationship Stage Quiz.
It’s our way of helping couples understand where they’re at and giving them the clearest path forward... along with access to this limited-time pricing.
[Take the quiz now] to find your stage and unlock the offer.
How does this compare to other options?
Most couples counseling costs between $150–$250 per session, which adds up fast. A single weekly session over 6 months? That’s $3,600–$6,000 — and it often stops when the sessions end.
The Fortress gives you more.
You get 24/7 access, an entire growth path, breathwork, separate men’s and women’s spaces, expert support, community, and results that last — all for less than what you’d pay for a few months of therapy.
This isn’t just a better value... It’s a better outcome.
What if I don’t see myself in any of the relationship stages?
Totally okay.
The stages are there to help couples orient themselves — not to box anyone in.
Your relationship might not fit perfectly into one category... that doesn’t mean this isn’t for you.
It just means you’re unique, and that’s exactly why The Fortress works — because it meets you where you are.
You’re free to start in the stage that feels closest or most relevant… Or jump into the one you aspire to grow into.
And if you’re still unsure, we’ve got your back:
→ Take the quiz again
→ Ask us inside the community
→ Or just start the journey and let the clarity come as you go.
The real goal?
Not to label your relationship — but to build it stronger than it’s ever been.
What if we want to work more closely with you?
We occasionally offer deeper coaching or small group experiences for Fortress members only. But our primary goal is to help you grow through the structure already in place — at your pace, in your power, with all the support you need.
Copyrights Sollevare Ventures, LLC | Terms & Conditions
Top Shelf Love:
The Fortress
Not just marriage advice.
This is legacy love.
The Fortress is a couples experience designed for those who want more — more connection, more strength, more meaning.
Not therapy. Not fluff.
Just the tools, structure, and support to build the love you were meant for.
~What we do~
Top Shelf Love is a
full-spectrum
relationship ecosystem
We help couples reconnect, communicate with strength, and build a relationship that becomes the foundation of a legendary life.
Whether you're struggling to stay connected…
or simply know you're meant for more…
you’ll find exactly what you need — right where you are.
This isn’t therapy.
This is leadership
in love, family, and legacy.
~Why It Works~
Couples don’t all start at the same place — so we don’t pretend they do.
When you join, you’ll choose your stage:
💔 The Almost Broken
⚔️ The Lovers at War
🛏 The Silent Roommates
💨 The Drifting Duo
🛠 The Builders
Take the Quiz That
Could Change Everything
24 questions. Honest answers. Real clarity.
Stage 1: The Almost Broken
💔 Something happened. You’re still here… but barely.
Pain has taken center stage — betrayal, loss of trust, or a slow breakdown. One or both of you may feel shut down, hopeless, or emotionally armored. You’re here because part of you still wants to hold on
➡️ This stage focuses on healing, nervous system safety, and beginning again from ground zero.
Stage 2: Lovers at War
⚔️ You love each other — but every conversation is a fight.
There’s still fire… but it burns. Arguments, shutdowns, or reactive patterns dominate your dynamic. You’re both present, but exhausted.
➡️ This stage helps you rebuild safety, regulate emotions, and shift from reaction to reconnection.
Stage 3: The Silent Roommates
🛏 You’re not fighting… but you’re not connecting.
Things feel emotionally flat or distant. There’s no big rupture — just quiet disconnection and coexisting. You miss the intimacy you used to have.
➡️ This stage helps you reignite the spark, rebuild emotional intimacy, and bring life back to the relationship.
Stage 4: The Drifting Duo
💨 You’re still kind… but you’re growing apart.
One or both of you may be on a personal growth journey. It feels like you're no longer aligned — spiritually, emotionally, or sexually. You want to stay connected, but feel like you’re in different lanes.
➡️ This stage realigns your vision, values, and direction — so you grow together, not apart.
Stage 5: The Builders
🛠 You’re strong — but you want more.
You’ve got a solid foundation, but you’re ready to go deeper. You want legacy, leadership, and a love that creates real impact. This isn’t repair — this is refinement.
➡️ This stage is for couples ready to rise into something iconic — and pass it on.
Each stage unlocks a personalized path through our
Top Shelf Framework:
1. Start fresh Together –
Claim the Ground
2. Reignite the Spark -
Align the Fire
3. Anchor the Connection -
Build the Culture
4. Master the Language of Love -
Speak the Standard
5. Build the Legacy –
Fortify the Future
It’s not just theory.
It’s not just inspiration.
It’s a step-by-step structure for real growth.
~Why we're different~
We’re not offering therapy — and that’s the point.
Alessandra was a therapist.
Stratton was a relationship coach.
We've both seen what works —
and what doesn’t — behind closed doors.
We’ve both been through our own transformation, together and individually.
This isn’t theory.
This is lived, tested, real.
And we knew couples needed something more
More engaging
More holistic
More structure
More human
That's why we created
a hybrid experience
Separate spaces for men and women
live support, real tools, deep breathwork
A Clear structure that doesn't just keep you together — it makes you proud to be
One that honors the individual journey
and the shared one.
🔹 Men step into brotherhood, clarity, and challenge.
🔹 Women return to their wisdom, softness, and sovereignty.
And together?
You rise into a love that’s built to last.
This isn’t therapy.
This is Top Shelf Love.
It’s not just about fixing what’s broken.
It’s about forging something unbreakable.
Ready to Find Your Starting Point?
Take the quiz and discover your relationship’s current stage. (coming soon)
We’ll guide you from exactly where you are —
and take you where you’re meant to be.
or
~who we ARE~
We’re Stratton & Alessandra — a real couple, building a real life, raising four kids while living out the very values we teach inside this space.
We created Top Shelf Love not because our relationship was perfect…
But because we knew we were meant for more than just getting by.
We believe that love should be:
-Chosen, not defaulted into
-Lived out loud, not tucked behind roles
-Powerful enough to build a legacy
So we built a space for couples
who want that too.
~What Top Shelf Love Stands For~
These are the 5 foundations of Top Shelf Love — the concept:
Intention over Default
Love doesn’t just happen. It’s chosen, forged, and led — daily.
Truth over Comfort
Real connection doesn’t grow through pretending. It grows through courage.
Presence over Distraction
Top Shelf Love is found in small, overlooked moments — not grand gestures.
Growth over Stagnation
You’re either evolving together or drifting apart. We grow on purpose.
Legacy over the Highlight Reel
This isn’t about looking good online. It’s about being felt for generations.
~what we believe~
1. We believe marriage can be your greatest path to healing, leadership, and legacy.
2. We believe your love is worth more than just staying together.
3. We believe the relationship you build together can be your life’s greatest work.
If you believe that too…
Then welcome to
Top Shelf Love.
🔍 Top Shelf Love – FAQs
This isn’t just another program — and your questions deserve real answers.
Let’s get you clear before you take the next step.
Is this therapy?
No — and that’s intentional. Top Shelf Love isn’t about diagnosing or reliving the past. It’s about building forward. This is a structured, immersive relationship experience designed by a former therapist and her husband — rooted in real tools, powerful breathwork, and a proven growth path. It’s not therapy… it’s transformation.
What if only one of us wants to join?
That’s okay. While this experience is designed for couples, you doing the work can shift everything. We’ve seen it time and time again — one partner leading with clarity, presence, and purpose often becomes the catalyst for real change. And if your partner joins later? Beautiful. But you don’t have to wait to start building something better.
What if we’re in a really bad place? (like cheating, betrayal, or considering divorce)
We built this with you in mind. When you join, you’ll choose the stage that reflects where your relationship is right now. Couples who are hurting, disconnected, or barely hanging on will start with tools and support designed for that exact experience — not a generic “marriage is hard” pep talk. You’ll be met with depth, safety, and truth — not shame.
What exactly do we get when we join?
You’ll get access to: A personalized entry point based on your stage as a couple.
A full 5-stage framework (The Top Shelf Path) delivered through your stage’s lens.
Breathwork vaults for couples, men, and women.
Private men’s and women’s spaces.
Bi-weekly couples Q&A calls with Stratton and Alessandra
A community of couples on the same mission
Optional lifetime access if chosen on your first invoice
Is this religious or faith-based?
We’re a faith-filled family, but this space welcomes all backgrounds. Our values are rooted in legacy, intention, and truth — not dogma. Top Shelf Love is for anyone committed to building a powerful, connected, and purposeful relationship.
How much time will this take each week?
We built this for real life — not fantasy schedules.
Most couples spend 1–2 hours per week inside The Fortress:
20–30 minutes watching or listening to a lesson.
30–60 minutes on guided conversations, breathwork, or rituals.
Optional time in the community or Q&A calls
You set the pace. We provide the structure.
What does it cost to join The Fortress?
The standard enrollment is $3,000 for six months or $650/month for six months.
But right now, there’s a special Founding Member offer — including the chance for lifetime access — available exclusively through our Relationship Stage Quiz.
It’s our way of helping couples understand where they’re at and giving them the clearest path forward... along with access to this limited-time pricing.
[Take the quiz now] to find your stage and unlock the offer.
How does this compare to other options?
Most couples counseling costs between $150–$250 per session, which adds up fast.
A single weekly session over 6 months? That’s $3,600–$6,000 — and it often stops when the sessions end.
The Fortress gives you more.
You get 24/7 access, an entire growth path, breathwork, separate men’s and women’s spaces, expert support, community, and results that last — all for less than what you’d pay for a few months of therapy.
This isn’t just a better value...
It’s a better outcome.
What if I don’t see myself in any of the relationship stages?
Totally okay.
The stages are there to help couples orient themselves — not to box anyone in.
Your relationship might not fit perfectly into one category... that doesn’t mean this isn’t for you.
It just means you’re unique, and that’s exactly why The Fortress works — because it meets you where you are.
You’re free to start in the stage that feels closest or most relevant…
Or jump into the one you aspire to grow into.
And if you’re still unsure, we’ve got your back:
→ Take the quiz again
→ Ask us inside the community
→ Or just start the journey and let the clarity come as you go.
The real goal?
Not to label your relationship — but to build it stronger than it’s ever been.
What if we want to work more closely with you?
We occasionally offer deeper coaching or small group experiences for Fortress members only. But our primary goal is to help you grow through the structure already in place — at your pace, in your power, with all the support you need.
Copyrights Sollevare Ventures, LLC | Terms & Conditions