Your Marriage Stronghold

For couples who want to stop guessing and start rebuilding - for real.

Enrollment Open!

🟢18 Cohort Spots left

🟢 6 Private Spots left

🎯 You don’t need more talking.

You need a real path. One that actually works.
Where he stops checking out, she stops walking on eggshells,
and you both start showing up with truth, power, and presence.

That’s what The Fortress is for.

⚙️What It is

  • A minimum 3-month program for high-stakes couples

  • Cohort Tier: 20 couples max

  • Private Tier: 6 couples max

  • Most couples stay 6–9 months because of how deep the results go

You’ll each do your work individually first — then come together to rebuild something stronger than before.

🏛️ how It Works

Inside The Fortress are three core spaces:

🛡️ The Men’s Quarter
→ For him to stabilize, feel again, and reclaim trust.

🌹 The Women’s Quarter
→ For her to be seen, release resentment, and come back to self.

🏰 The Great Hall
→ Where you return to each other - with truth, clarity, and a new standard.

This structure is why it works.
Most people never get here in a lifetime.

Why Now

We’re not trying to scale this.
We cap enrollment for a reason - so couples actually get what they came for.

If you wait, you may be waiting longer than you want.

When we’re full, we’re full.

📖 Start Here While You Wait (Optional)

If you’re not quite ready or the program is full, grab a copy of:


The Body Keeps the Score


It’ll show you why we begin with you, not just “the relationship.”

💬 Ready to talk?

This isn’t an application.
It’s a conversation - with us.

We’ll listen.
We’ll tell you the truth.


And we’ll help you figure out if this is the right move for your marriage.

👋who we ARE

We’re Stratton and Alessandra Sollevare.

Married 14 years. Four kids.


We built The Fortress because we almost lost what mattered most.

Now we help other couples build a love that’s real - not just performative.

That’s the only kind worth keeping.

🔍 Top Shelf Love – FAQs

Still have questions?

Is this therapy?

No - and that’s on purpose.


Top Shelf Love isn’t about diagnosis, venting, or analyzing your past.


It’s about building forward with tools that actually change how you show up.

This is a deep, structured experience rooted in breathwork, nervous system regulation, and emotional leadership - designed by a former therapist and her husband.

It’s not therapy. It’s transformation.

What if only one of us wants to join?

Start anyway.


One partner leading with truth, presence, and consistency can shift everything.
You don’t have to wait. And if your partner joins later?

Even better.

What if we’re in a really bad place? (like cheating, betrayal, or considering divorce)

Like betrayal, shutdown, or divorce talk)

Whether you're in full-blown crisis or just quietly drifting apart - you’re not alone.

We designed The Fortress to meet you where you are:

If you're hurting, disconnected, or on the brink, we’ll help you stabilize and rebuild from the ground up.

If you're doing okay but want something better, we’ll help you deepen connection, rebuild desire, and lead with intention.

Whatever stage you're in, there's a path forward - and we’ll help you walk it.

Is this religious or faith-based?

We’re a faith-filled family, but this space welcomes all backgrounds. Our values are rooted in legacy, intention, and truth — not dogma. Top Shelf Love is for anyone committed to building a powerful, connected, and purposeful relationship.

How much time will this take each week?

Most couples spend 1–2 hours per week.


That usually looks like:

20–30 mins of lesson or reflection

30–60 mins of guided convo, breathwork, or rituals

Optional time in community or Q&A calls

You set the pace. We provide the path.

What does it cost to join The Fortress?

There are two paths inside The Fortress:

Cohort Tier – $3,600 or $3k pay-in-full

Private Tier – $7,000 or $6k pay-in-full

No gimmicks. No drawn-out sales calls.


Just two clear options - so you can choose what’s right for your marriage.

If you're unsure, we’ll walk through it with you.

No pressure. Just truth.

What’s the difference between Cohort and Private?

Cohort Tier gives you:

Group coaching and strategy calls (2x/month)

Men’s and women’s breathwork sessions (2x/month)

Separate spaces for healing and growth

Access to the full Fortress path and community

Private Tier includes everything above, plus:

One private 1:1 session per month with Alessandra

One private 1:1 session per month with Stratton

Direct support and custom guidance just for you and your partner

Same framework. Same foundation.
But Private gives you more access, more feedback, and a more personalized experience.

How does this compare to other options?

It’s not just more affordable - it goes deeper.


Traditional therapy is often $150–$250/session. Over six months, that’s $3,600–$6,000 - and the moment the sessions stop, so does the momentum.

The Fortress gives you:

24/7 access to a full growth path

Breathwork for men, women, and couples

Separate spaces for individual healing

Community and expert support

A structure that actually transforms how you relate

This isn’t just a better value.

It’s a better outcome.

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