Where High-Caliber
love begins
Top Shelf Love is where high-value singles
meet, connect and grow - together.
This is not just another dating service.
This is where meaningful relationships are built.
How It Works
Apply & Get Accepted
Join the Community
Engage in Live Events
Meet High-Quality Matches
Build Real Connections
3 tiers to choose from
Find Love.
Build COnnection.
Become your BEst.
Where High-Caliber
love begins
Top Shelf Love is where high-value singles meet,
connect and grow - together.
This is not just another dating service.
This is where meaningful relationships are built.
How It Works
Apply & Get Accepted
Join the Community
Engage in Live Events
Meet High-Quality Matches
Build Real Connections
3 tiers to choose from
TOP SHELF LOVE
Which Tier iS BEst for you?
The Haven
$83/month*
(*six month pass)
Community Access
Weekly Live Events
Exclusive Discussions
A Place to Grow
The Haven is enough.
For many, this is where love is found.
Elevate
$5,000
(year pass)
All HAven Amenities
Top Tier Vetting
Private COmmunity
higher Caliber Matching
Matchmaking Support
The ones you want are Here.
apex
$25,000
(year pass)
All Elevate Amenities
Elite, Hand Selected
1:1 Coaching
Concierge Matchmaking
Private events & Retreats
You Don't Settle in Life.
You Don't settle in love.
Why This is Different
So... What is Top Shelf Love?? =)
Top Shelf Love is an exclusive, high-quality dating experience designed for people who refuse to settle.
This isn’t a typical dating app or matchmaking service—it’s a curated space where high-caliber singles connect with intention.
Through private communities, live events, and personalized guidance, we create an environment where meaningful relationships thrive.
Whether you're looking for organic connections in The Haven, a next-level experience in Elevate, or a premier, bespoke approach in Apex, Top Shelf Love is designed to help you find the extraordinary love you deserve.
Still have questions? Doubts? Concerns?
Check out the FAQs below.
Frequently Asked Questions
What makes this group different from other dating communities?
We’re focused on bringing high-quality individuals together based on shared values, a growth mindset, and a strong sense of purpose. Unlike typical dating apps or communities that focus on quantity, we focus on quality connections. We create an environment where you can truly grow and meet someone who matches your heart's energy, not just your looks or location.
How does Top Shelf Love help me find the right partner?
Top Shelf Love isn't just about swiping left or right. Our approach combines deep self-reflection, curated matches, and regular engagement with a supportive community to help you find meaningful connections. We start with an application process that’s tailored to better understand who you are, what you want, and what you truly need in a partner. Then, our founders, Alessandra and Stratton, personally help guide you through the process, ensuring you feel supported every step of the way.
How do I connect with other members once I’m in the group?
Once you're accepted, we have a few ways for you to connect with other like-minded individuals. You’ll have access to the private Facebook Group, where you can engage with others, share experiences, ask questions, and build meaningful relationships. Additionally, we host regular live events, workshops, and discussions that provide a space for interaction and connection. We're all about building a strong, supportive community, so don't hesitate to reach out and start engaging right away!
What does the application process look like?
We’ve designed a thorough yet simple application process to ensure you’re matched with the best possible people for your journey. You’ll answer questions that help us understand your values, lifestyle, and relationship goals, all while ensuring you’re prepared for a meaningful connection. Once your application is approved, you’ll be invited into the community, where we focus on growth, self-awareness, and empowerment as part of the process.
What kind of people are in the group?
We’re creating a community of like-minded, growth-focused individuals who want more than just a casual fling. The people here are thoughtful, open-minded, and serious about finding their match. Many have a clear vision for their lives, are passionate about personal development, and want to share those values with someone special. If you’re serious about growth and finding a real connection, this is the right place for you.
But I want to meet Someone in my Area...
We totally get it—proximity matters when it comes to building a connection.
But here's the thing: when you join Top Shelf Love, you're not just joining a local group, you're joining a high-vibe, high-quality community. Think of it like having access to a curated pool of people who are specifically aligned with your values, goals, and vision for the future.
We help you find meaningful connections based on quality and shared vision, not just geography. And as the community grows, who knows? You might find someone in your area that aligns perfectly with you—but even if they're across the country or around the world, you’ll have the tools, support, and mindset to make it work.
What about long-Distance Relationships?
We understand that the idea of a long-distance relationship can feel daunting—after all, meeting someone you truly connect with and not being able to easily see them can create a lot of uncertainty. But here’s the powerful thing about Top Shelf Love: we provide you with a support system and tools that equip you to not just make a long-distance relationship work, but to thrive in it.
Our community is all about building deeper emotional and intellectual connections, so by the time you meet someone, you’re already on the same page in terms of values, intentions, and goals.
Plus, through the resources we offer—like guided conversations, shared experiences, and the chance to engage in intentional personal growth—you’ll have a stronger foundation to overcome the challenges that distance can create.
It's not about the miles between you; it’s about how you show up in the relationship and build that connection. And when you’re both committed to growing individually and together, distance becomes less of an obstacle and more of an opportunity to deepen your bond.
How can I be sure that this will work for me?
We believe in the power of intentional connection. Our founders, Alessandra and Stratton, have crafted this community based on their own journeys and understand that finding the right partner requires more than just luck. By joining, you’re investing in a space where your growth, happiness, and connection are top priorities. It’s about taking control of your story, engaging in the right conversations, and being part of a community that’s committed to helping each other succeed.
Is this group still in its early stages?
Yes, this group is in its early stages, and we’re so excited about the growth and opportunities ahead! We’ve created a space where genuine connections and personal growth can flourish. As we grow together, we’re committed to making sure it remains a safe, high-quality space for everyone involved. Your presence and feedback will help shape this community into something truly special.
Will the group grow quickly?
We believe in steady and intentional growth. While we’re starting small, we expect the community to grow as people like you join and invite others who align with the values we’re creating. It’s our goal to provide a high level of engagement and value to each member, no matter the size of the group.
What is the level of commitment required to be in the group?
Commitment is about quality, not quantity. We ask you to show up authentically, engage in the process, and be open to new ways of connecting with others. While there’s no pressure to be online 24/7, we encourage you to actively participate in discussions, events, and connect with members who align with your values. Our goal is for you to get the most out of the group, and for the group to get the most out of you.
How does Top Shelf Love support my growth outside of finding a partner?
We believe that before you can truly find your match, you need to be the best version of yourself. That’s why we offer personal development opportunities through workshops, breathwork sessions, and group discussions designed to elevate your mindset, communication skills, and emotional intelligence. By investing in yourself, you’re setting yourself up for success in all aspects of life—love included.
What’s the price and what do I get for it?
Top Shelf Love is designed to be accessible, with a starting membership tier of $500 for six months. For this investment, you’ll receive full access to the community, including events, workshops, breathwork sessions, personalized guidance, and, of course, access to a pool of like-minded individuals looking for meaningful connections. We also offer higher-tier options with more tailored experiences to help support your specific needs.
Are there any additional costs or hidden fees?
Nope! We believe in being fully transparent with our members. The price you pay when joining the group is all-inclusive—there are no hidden fees or surprise costs down the line. We want to make sure you have everything you need to succeed without worrying about unexpected expenses. If anything changes in the future, we'll communicate it clearly with you well in advance
What is your refund policy?
We believe in fostering strong, committed relationships and trust within our community. Because of this, we handle refund requests on a case-by-case basis. We want to ensure that everyone who joins is truly invested in the experience and growth of themselves and others. If you have any concerns after joining, please reach out, and we’ll work together to find a solution that feels right for both you and the community.
Is there a free option to get involved with the community?
While we don’t have a free option for full access to the group, we do offer a free sneak peek into the community through our lobby. This allows you to get a feel for the environment, check out the culture, and see what we’re about. The lobby is a place where you can get to know the group before committing, but access to all features and opportunities is exclusive to members who are ready to join. We believe this helps ensure that every member is genuinely committed to being part of the experience and investing in their growth.
Join the Lobby here:
How do I know if I’m ready to join?
If you’re seeking something deeper than a casual fling, if you’re ready to invest in yourself and your future, and if you’re serious about finding someone who aligns with your values, then you’re ready to join. We’re looking for individuals who are ready to commit to personal growth, positive relationships, and meaningful connections. If that resonates with you, we’d love to have you join us.
How do I get started?
To get started, simply fill out the application form. We’ll review your responses, and once you’re accepted, we’ll invite you into the community. From there, you’ll get access to all the tools, support, and connections you need to kickstart your journey. We’re here every step of the way to make sure you feel empowered and supported in finding your perfect match.
Copyright 2025 | Sollevare Ventures LLC
TOP SHELF LOVE
Tiers
The Haven
$83/month*
(*six month pass)
Community Access
Weekly Live Events
Exclusive Discussions
A Place to Grow
The Haven is enough.
For many, this is where love is found.
Elevate
$5,000
(year pass)
All HAven Amenities
Top Tier Vetting
Private COmmunity
higher Caliber Matching
Matchmaking Support
The ones you want are Here.
apex
$25,000
(year pass)
All Elevate Amenities
Elite, Hand Selected
1:1 Coaching
Concierge Matchmaking
Private events & Retreats
You Don't Settle in Life.
You Don't settle in love.
So... What is Top Shelf Love?? =)
Top Shelf Love is an exclusive, high-quality dating experience designed for people who refuse to settle.
This isn’t a typical dating app or matchmaking service—it’s a curated space where high-caliber singles connect with intention.
Through private communities, live events, and personalized guidance, we create an environment where meaningful relationships thrive.
Whether you're looking for organic connections in The Haven, a next-level experience in Elevate, or a premier, bespoke approach in Apex, Top Shelf Love is designed to help you find the extraordinary love you deserve.
Still have questions? Doubts? Concerns? Check out the FAQs below.
Frequently Asked Questions
What makes this group different from other dating communities?
We’re focused on bringing high-quality individuals together based on shared values, a growth mindset, and a strong sense of purpose. Unlike typical dating apps or communities that focus on quantity, we focus on quality connections. We create an environment where you can truly grow and meet someone who matches your heart's energy, not just your looks or location.
How does Top Shelf Love help me find the right partner?
Top Shelf Love isn't just about swiping left or right. Our approach combines deep self-reflection, curated matches, and regular engagement with a supportive community to help you find meaningful connections. We start with an application process that’s tailored to better understand who you are, what you want, and what you truly need in a partner. Then, our founders, Alessandra and Stratton, personally help guide you through the process, ensuring you feel supported every step of the way.
How do I connect with other members once I’m in the group?
Once you're accepted, we have a few ways for you to connect with other like-minded individuals. You’ll have access to the private Facebook Group, where you can engage with others, share experiences, ask questions, and build meaningful relationships. Additionally, we host regular live events, workshops, and discussions that provide a space for interaction and connection. We're all about building a strong, supportive community, so don't hesitate to reach out and start engaging right away!
What does the application process look like?
We’ve designed a thorough yet simple application process to ensure you’re matched with the best possible people for your journey. You’ll answer questions that help us understand your values, lifestyle, and relationship goals, all while ensuring you’re prepared for a meaningful connection. Once your application is approved, you’ll be invited into the community, where we focus on growth, self-awareness, and empowerment as part of the process.
What kind of people are in the group?
We’re creating a community of like-minded, growth-focused individuals who want more than just a casual fling. The people here are thoughtful, open-minded, and serious about finding their match. Many have a clear vision for their lives, are passionate about personal development, and want to share those values with someone special. If you’re serious about growth and finding a real connection, this is the right place for you.
But I want to meet Someone in my Area...
We totally get it—proximity matters when it comes to building a connection.
But here's the thing: when you join Top Shelf Love, you're not just joining a local group, you're joining a high-vibe, high-quality community. Think of it like having access to a curated pool of people who are specifically aligned with your values, goals, and vision for the future.
We help you find meaningful connections based on quality and shared vision, not just geography. And as the community grows, who knows? You might find someone in your area that aligns perfectly with you—but even if they're across the country or around the world, you’ll have the tools, support, and mindset to make it work.
What about long-Distance Relationships?
We understand that the idea of a long-distance relationship can feel daunting—after all, meeting someone you truly connect with and not being able to easily see them can create a lot of uncertainty. But here’s the powerful thing about Top Shelf Love: we provide you with a support system and tools that equip you to not just make a long-distance relationship work, but to thrive in it.
Our community is all about building deeper emotional and intellectual connections, so by the time you meet someone, you’re already on the same page in terms of values, intentions, and goals.
Plus, through the resources we offer—like guided conversations, shared experiences, and the chance to engage in intentional personal growth—you’ll have a stronger foundation to overcome the challenges that distance can create.
It's not about the miles between you; it’s about how you show up in the relationship and build that connection. And when you’re both committed to growing individually and together, distance becomes less of an obstacle and more of an opportunity to deepen your bond.
How can I be sure that this will work for me?
We believe in the power of intentional connection. Our founders, Alessandra and Stratton, have crafted this community based on their own journeys and understand that finding the right partner requires more than just luck. By joining, you’re investing in a space where your growth, happiness, and connection are top priorities. It’s about taking control of your story, engaging in the right conversations, and being part of a community that’s committed to helping each other succeed.
Is this group still in its early stages?
Yes, this group is in its early stages, and we’re so excited about the growth and opportunities ahead! We’ve created a space where genuine connections and personal growth can flourish. As we grow together, we’re committed to making sure it remains a safe, high-quality space for everyone involved. Your presence and feedback will help shape this community into something truly special.
Will the group grow quickly?
We believe in steady and intentional growth. While we’re starting small, we expect the community to grow as people like you join and invite others who align with the values we’re creating. It’s our goal to provide a high level of engagement and value to each member, no matter the size of the group.
What is the level of commitment required to be in the group?
Commitment is about quality, not quantity. We ask you to show up authentically, engage in the process, and be open to new ways of connecting with others. While there’s no pressure to be online 24/7, we encourage you to actively participate in discussions, events, and connect with members who align with your values. Our goal is for you to get the most out of the group, and for the group to get the most out of you.
How does Top Shelf Love support my growth outside of finding a partner?
We believe that before you can truly find your match, you need to be the best version of yourself. That’s why we offer personal development opportunities through workshops, breathwork sessions, and group discussions designed to elevate your mindset, communication skills, and emotional intelligence. By investing in yourself, you’re setting yourself up for success in all aspects of life—love included.
What’s the price and what do I get for it?
Top Shelf Love is designed to be accessible, with a starting membership tier of $500 for six months. For this investment, you’ll receive full access to the community, including events, workshops, breathwork sessions, personalized guidance, and, of course, access to a pool of like-minded individuals looking for meaningful connections. We also offer higher-tier options with more tailored experiences to help support your specific needs.
Are there any additional costs or hidden fees?
Nope! We believe in being fully transparent with our members. The price you pay when joining the group is all-inclusive—there are no hidden fees or surprise costs down the line. We want to make sure you have everything you need to succeed without worrying about unexpected expenses. If anything changes in the future, we'll communicate it clearly with you well in advance
What is your refund policy?
We believe in fostering strong, committed relationships and trust within our community. Because of this, we handle refund requests on a case-by-case basis. We want to ensure that everyone who joins is truly invested in the experience and growth of themselves and others. If you have any concerns after joining, please reach out, and we’ll work together to find a solution that feels right for both you and the community.
Is there a free option to get involved with the community?
While we don’t have a free option for full access to the group, we do offer a free sneak peek into the community through our lobby. This allows you to get a feel for the environment, check out the culture, and see what we’re about. The lobby is a place where you can get to know the group before committing, but access to all features and opportunities is exclusive to members who are ready to join. We believe this helps ensure that every member is genuinely committed to being part of the experience and investing in their growth.
Join the Lobby here:
How do I know if I’m ready to join?
If you’re seeking something deeper than a casual fling, if you’re ready to invest in yourself and your future, and if you’re serious about finding someone who aligns with your values, then you’re ready to join. We’re looking for individuals who are ready to commit to personal growth, positive relationships, and meaningful connections. If that resonates with you, we’d love to have you join us.
How do I get started?
To get started, simply fill out the application form. We’ll review your responses, and once you’re accepted, we’ll invite you into the community. From there, you’ll get access to all the tools, support, and connections you need to kickstart your journey. We’re here every step of the way to make sure you feel empowered and supported in finding your perfect match.
Copyright 2025 | Sollevare Ventures LLC